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Boarding Recovery

A few words about us

The BOARDING RECOVERY counsellors and psychotherapists have undertaken specialist training in working with adults who are ex-boarding school pupils.

We find that ex-boarding school pupils may be affected by childhood experiences in the most subtle yet devastating ways, and they often exhibit characteristics such as the following:

Boarding school survivors may ...


competent
...be competent, self-reliant and independent
endurance
...be able and willing to endure hardship for long periods without complaint
mistrust
...have a deep mistrust of a personal approach
bravery
...value bravery, integrity and public service more highly than personal needs
outsider
...be a perpetual 'outsider'
hidden distress
...keep their distress hidden from themselves
stoical
...be stoical
shame
...have dysfunctional behaviours of which they are deeply ashamed
success
...be highly successful
pillars
...be pillars of the community