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BOARDING RECOVERY has an expanding network of experienced psychotherapists with members operating nationwide.

All the psychotherapists have some specialist training in working with those who went to boarding school and are committed to ongoing supervision and professional development of this specialist area of their work.

Professional supporters include Nick Duffell and Professor Joy Schaverien, as well as a consultant psychiatrist and the public information organisation Boarding Concern.

The Counsellors and Psychotherapists are listed by region below. They welcome all approaches whether on your own behalf or that of another person, for example if you are a GP, partner or concerned friend. Communications are dealt with on a strictly confidential basis.

Nothing written on this website should be treated as a substitute for the direct, personal advice of a qualified therapist or medical professional. The listing of therapists is offered on that understanding.



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Marcus Gottlieb


Marcus Gottlieb

Marcus is a UKCP registered and BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist, a member of the UK Association of Humanistic Psychology Practitioners, a graduate of Spectrum's Sexuality and Anger programmes, a qualified practitioner of Pesso-Boyden System Psychomotor, a clinical counselling supervisor and a couples therapist. His work is now mostly with boarding school survivors, whether as individuals or couples. His interests include bullying and racism, and working with addictions. He attended the 2005 specialist diploma training 'Psychotherapy with ex-Boarders' with Nick Duffell, Helena Løvendäl and Joy Schaverien. Previously, he practised as a solicitor.

Contact Marcus

A: St Luke's Road LONDON W11 1DP

T: 07973 322819

E: marcusgottlieb@gmail.com

W: www.nottinghilltherapy.co.uk



Darrel Hunneybell


Darrel Hunneybell

Darrel registered as a psychotherapist in 2002 with UKCP, having completed training with The Institute of Psychosynthesis, London. In his private practice he works with both individuals and groups and offers clinical supervision. With past experience in Social Services and Education, Darrel brings an understanding of the effects of abandonment, alienation and institutionalisation to his work with the psychological effects of the public school experience. Darrel runs the ‘Boarding School Survivors’ workshops with Nick Duffell and Men's Groups exploring the themes of masculinity, identity and self-discovery. He attended the 2005 specialist diploma training 'Psychotherapy with ex-Boarders' with Nick Duffell, Helena Lovendäl and Joy Schaverien.

Contact Darrel

A: The Angel N1 and The City EC1

T: 07949 612504

E: darrel@psychotherapy-london.org

W: www.darrelhunneybellcounselling.co.uk



Rosemary Lamaison


Rosemary Lamaison

Rosemary is a psychodynamic counsellor and attended the 2005 specialist diploma training 'Psychotherapy with ex-Boarders' with Nick Duffell, Helena Lovendäl and Joy Schaverien. Her work, over 20 years, covers relationship and intimacy issues, couples work, anxiety, loss / separation / bereavement, depression, confidence building, sexual and physical abuse, life changes, eating and weight worries, sexuality and racial issues. She runs workshops for Parents – Ten Top Tips for Parents, How do we know how to Parent our Children, Living with a Teenager, Sibling Rivalry, as well as on Loss, Anger Management, Transition.

Contact Rosemary

A: Ruislip, Harrow, Uxbridge

T: 0208 868 8020

E: rosemarylamaison@hotmail.com

W: www.middlesexcounselling.co.uk



Nick Wolstenholme


Nick Wolstenholme

Nick is a UKCP registered psychotherapist and studied at the Karuna Institute. He has attended the specialist psychotherapy training "psychotherapy with ex-boarders". Before training in psychotherapy, Nick studied Homoeopathy and Health Sciences in London. He works with individuals at his private practice and at Yoga Place, both in Bethnal Green. His area of particular interest is working with abandonment depression. Previously his experience has included facilitating peer paranoia groups with MIND and working in a counselling charity in Hackney.

Contact Nick

A: Bethnal Green London E2

T: 0203 561 8032

E: info@nicholaswolstenholme.co.uk

W: www.nicholaswolstenholme.co.uk






Nicola Miller


Nicola Miller

Nicola co-facilitates the BSS Women's Workshops and provides Psychotherapy and Supervision in Leeds. She attended the National Diploma Training in Specialist Psychotherapy with ex-Boarders (2005) with Nick Duffell, Helena Lovendäl and Joy Schaverien. Previously trained in Gestalt, Body Psychotherapy and PBSP, she's been in private practice over 25 years.

Contact Nicola

A: Leeds Complementary Therapy Centre Otley Road, Leeds LS16 5LQ

T: 0113 217 1441 / 0794 6421703

E: nicola@nicola-miller.co.uk

W: www.nicola-miller.co.uk






Pippa Foster


Pippa Foster

Pippa has over 30 years of experience working as a psychodynamic psychotherapist. Originally she trained in clinical psychology and has worked in a variety of settings, including on the teaching staff of the Tavistock Clinic. She has also worked extensively with those making life changes both in career, location or life style. Having lived and worked in a number of different countries she has a special concern for those who have been through upheavals in childhood, facing cultural change, whether it be in the move to boarding school in their country of origin or for those sent 'home' from ex pat communities. Pippa attended the 2005 specialist diploma training 'Psychotherapy with ex-Boarders' with Nick Duffell, Helena Lovendäl and Joy Schaverien, and works as a co facilitator on the annual workshops for women ex boarders.

Contact Pippa

A: Steyning, West Sussex BN44 3GF

T: 07733 362658

E: pippafoster@gmail.com



Lizzie Nowosielska


Lizzie Nowosielska

Lizzie is a BACP Senior Accredited and works with individuals and couples from her private practice in Winchester. She qualified as a client-centred counsellor in 1998 and further training includes bereavement, post-traumatic stress, dissociation, childhood sexual abuse, and boarding school survival. She has worked in a variety of settings including running her local Rape Crisis service.

Contact Lizzie

A: Winchester, Hampshire

T: 07340 740654

E: lizzienowosielska1@gmail.com

W: www.lizzie-nowosielska.co.uk



Sam Milford


Sam Milford

Sam is a psychodynamic counsellor and a graduate from Nick Duffell's Diploma in Specialist Psychotherapy with ex-Boarders. He works with individuals at his central Brighton practice and has experience working with people through a broad range of issues such as feelings of anxiety, problems with intimacy, addiction, and issues around sex and sexuality. Since qualifying as a counsellor he has gone on to complete further training in CBT and Ecotherapy.

Contact Sam

A: Brighton, East Sussex BN1 4EJ

T: 01273 602137

E: sam.@brightoncounselling.net

W: www.brightoncounselling.net






Paul Welcomme


Paul Welcomme

Paul is a BACP an Relate Registered Relationship Counsellor/Psychotherapist and Coach and has created a successful Bristol/North Somerset Practice over 18 years through seeing clients locally and across the South West and South Wales. Paul attended the Boarding School Survivor workshops in 2010 and the Boarding Experience Training in 2011 with Nick Duffell, Helena Lovendäl and Joy Schaverien and has facilitated Boarding school workshops for Relate and Boarding Concern. Paul’s experience covers many areas of distress in addition to Boarding Survivors working with individuals and couples with depression/anxiety/anger/domestic violence/abuse and many other issues.

Contact Paul

A: Clevedon Counselling and Coaching Alexandra Road, Clevedon Bristol BS21 7QE

T: 0774 829 5253

E: info@clevedoncounselling.co.uk

W: www.clevedoncounselling.co.uk



Jane Barclay


Jane Barclay

Jane qualified as a Therapeutic Counsellor in 2000 and has developed a thriving private practice in Exeter. She is an accredited member of AHPP (Association of Humanistic Psychology Practitioners) and registered with UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy). Additional training includes Somatic Trauma Therapy with Babette Rothschild (2003), and The Boarding School Experience with Nick Duffell, Helena Lovendäl-Duffell and Joy Schaverien (2011). She offers face-to-face sessions and Skype sessions on request. For more details, and to see her publications, please visit her website.



Susanna Hoare


Susanna Hoare

Susanna’s experience covers working with relational themes of separation, loss and abandonment. She helps people inquire into their difficulties that may arise in relationships in later life. She works with individuals in private practice, recently moving to Truro in Cornwall. She has a Masters degree in depth-psychotherapy from the Karuna Institute, Devon and is registered with UKCP. She has attended the Boarding School Survivors workshops and the Specialist Diploma in working with ex-boarders.

Contact Susanna

A: Truro, Cornwall, TR1 3JA

T: 07712 575811

E: susannahoare@live.co.uk

W: www.susannahoarepsychotherapy.co.uk






Rosie Woodroffe


Rosie Woodroffe

Rosie has experience of boarding schools, both as a pupil and as a school counselor. She qualified as a psychotherapist in 1990 and is registered with UKCP (United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy). Her approach is integrative and she has completed a number of trainings, including working with couples, with Nick Duffell and Helena Lovendäl. Her particular interests are gender, sex and sexuality.

Contact Rosie

A: Woodbridge, Suffolk

T: 01394 382698

E: roe@pennybrig.com

W: www.rosiewoodroffe.co.uk